Questions for two

Couples quiz: 39 either-or questions for two

You may think you know your partner inside out. A couples quiz is a playful way to find out. The rules fit in one sentence: one of you secretly picks one of two options, and the other has to guess which one it was. Coffee or tea? Beach or mountains? The fun starts when a guess you were sure about turns out to be wrong.

In Say It! this is the Match mode. One player picks an answer without the other seeing it, then passes the phone, and the other player guesses. After 10 rounds a result screen shows your hit rate and every answer side by side, so you can see right away where you think alike and where you surprised each other.

You can also play without the app. Each of you takes a piece of paper, one person reads a question out loud, and both write down the partner’s pick secretly. Then you compare. Below you will find 39 either-or questions from the app, sorted by theme, from everyday habits to travel and little gestures.

Everyday habits

  • Early bird or night owl?
  • Morning shower or evening shower?
  • Quiet morning or chatty morning?
  • Calling or texting?
  • Replying instantly or replying hours later?
  • Phone on loud or always on silent?
  • Everything tidy or creative chaos?
  • Everything planned or totally spontaneous?
  • Saving up or splurging?
  • Long bath or quick shower?

Food and drink

  • Coffee or tea?
  • Sweet or salty?
  • Pizza or sushi?
  • Pancakes or waffles?
  • Ice cream or cake?
  • Chocolate or chips?
  • Spicy food or mild food?
  • Cooking at home or eating out?
  • Trying a new restaurant or the usual favorite?
  • Big breakfast or big dinner?

Travel

  • Beach or mountains?
  • Big city or countryside?
  • Camping or hotel?
  • Road trip or flight?
  • Window seat or aisle seat?
  • Sightseeing or all-inclusive relaxing?
  • Action-packed vacation or lazy vacation?

How you spend your free time

  • Movie night or party night?
  • Concert or museum?
  • Board games or video games?
  • Karaoke or dance floor?
  • Workout or couch?
  • Comedy or thriller?
  • The book or the movie?
  • Podcast or playlist?

Love and little gestures

Good for the end of a round, when you are both warmed up.

  • Surprise gift or wishlist gift?
  • Handwritten note or voice message?
  • Saying 'I love you' first or hearing it first?
  • Sunrise or sunset?

How to play it with Say It!

Open Match mode and play with one phone: one of you picks secretly, passes the phone, and the other guesses. After 10 rounds you see your hit rate and all answers side by side, and you can play again right away.

Match mode is free. If you want to keep going with conversation questions afterwards, the 36 questions are free too, and decks like Date Night or Deep Talk are unlocked with a single one-time purchase, with no subscription and no ads.